Sure, I’ll help you identify your dating goals, and I’ll even get into the nitty-gritty of the online dating world…
But we’re going to go so much deeper than just the process of dating.
To cope with the uncertainty of life post-divorce, we often tell ourselves:
“This is a fresh start! How many people get to press the reset button like this?”
“I married young. This is my chance to do all the things I missed out on!”
“I got my freedom back!”
The problem is, it’s hard to know what to do with this freedom.
Some women are overwhelmed by the thought of dating but force themselves to jump in anyway, encouraged by their friends’ advice to “get back out there!”
Others are excited to date, but bad experience after bad experience has reaffirmed their suspicions that “all men are trash.”
The truth is, no divorcee will enjoy dating and find the love of her life without focusing on her MINDSET first.
For years, you’ve likely spent so much time nurturing others that you’ve neglected yourself…
And that little voice in your head saying that you’re too old, too damaged, and too unattractive has only grown louder over time.
By entering the dating scene with these self-limiting beliefs, you’re likely to settle for relationships that are far beneath your standards, prolonging your feelings of emptiness and loneliness.
It’s only by realizing your worth, forming clear boundaries, and developing your inner confidence that you can attract the relationship you want and deserve.